Good relationships form out of strong friendships.
Strong friendships form out of bonds that transcend trivial matters: a friendship that lasts despite differences in opinion and lifestyle choices.
Bonds that transcend trivial matters are reliant on ‘clicking’ with another person: that moment when you realise you will stick with this person for as long as possible regardless of their fucking awful taste in art or their ridiculous rationalisations of simple matters.
Clicking with another person has an alternative: a bond that forms over time perhaps, due to close proximity and similar world views, or at a later moment in the relationship after the moment the two people first meet. Say, getting drunk together after work one day and then waking up together in some sort of barn in the middle of nowhere as cows steadily chew through the contents of your purse.
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